All interactive enrol/unenrol codepaths mark the context dirty

All interactive enrol/unenrol codepaths mark the context dirty

Manually enrolling and unenrolling self, and other users should
transparently set the context dirty. So walk all callers to
role_assign() and role_unassign() and mark the context dirty
where appropriate.

OTOH, most automated-backend enrol/unenrol mechanisms should not.
The backend lookups that happen when you login are well covered
by the login/enrolment process, and don't need to be marked dirty.